Can't? Of course you can.

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The next time you are in a situation that feels impossible, pull out this photo full of keys. Just think of all those lives lived. People carried those keys around and entered doors and locked chests... and lost their keys, too! And had troubles and worries and joys and friends that helped them out of tough spots and miracles happen by the intervention of a stranger.

If you've been trying, and trying, and trying to get through a situation, and it's not working, then maybe you've got the wrong key. Here are a whole bunch more. Take yourself somewhere really quiet and dark, and think of trading the key or solution that you've been using, in for something else.

Usually when people say they "can't," they mean they don't want to, or they don't feel like making the changes needed to make it happen, or they don't know how.

But there's usually a way. Here are a bunch of keys that have worked for people in the past. Why not try one of them?

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